Why Are Today's People Selfish: A Perspective from a Baha'i
As a Baha'i and a follower of Baha'u'llah, the Prophet-Founder of the Baha'i Faith, I often reflect on the question of why today's people are so selfish. The answer is multifaceted, involving both individual psychology and the societal structures within which we live.
The Nature of Selfishness
Selfishness is not unique to humans; it is a natural tendency of all living beings. However, in human beings, it can become a more pronounced and problematic trait. When a human being pursues his own selfish desires at the expense of others, this is where the problem arises. People often overlook how their selfishness affects others in order to satisfy their own needs and desires.
From the moment of birth, humans strive to fulfill their selfish desires. This begins with basic necessities like food, clothing, and shelter. As individuals progress, they seek more comfort and status, desiring recognition and fame. Alongside these desires, a human tendency to dominate others also emerges. However, whenever a person's goals are not met or their desires are unfulfilled, they experience sadness. Conversely, when their selfishness is satisfied, they feel happiness, albeit only temporarily. This cycle of seeking and achieving happiness through selfish means continues until death.
False Perceptions of Strength and Virtue
Many people believe that exhibiting traits such as selfishness, violence, sarcasm, aggression, and arrogance will make them appear strong. This belief is prevalent in various forms of media, particularly in crime dramas, and even in popular culture.
Consider the portrayal of selfishness in movies and television. For instance, characters who depict selfishness as a virtue are often celebrated. However, in reality, people who display such traits are not always popular. In my personal experiences, people who unconsciously attempted to act selfishly in pursuit of status and recognition often ended up isolated or even in danger. For example, the promotion of drug use, such as marijuana, is common in many movies, but in reality, it often results in serious consequences for individuals who indulge in it.
The Influence of Capitalism
Capitalism, a system in which we live, is fundamentally based on the assumption that people are infinitely selfish. This belief shapes our society and influences our behaviors and attitudes. In a capitalist society, the pursuit of personal gain is often seen as a virtue rather than a flaw.
Limited Perspective and Lack of Awareness
Many people who live in comfortable, sheltered environments often lack awareness of the struggles of others who are less fortunate. During my own upbringing, I never encountered one person who was genuinely hungry and unable to access food. While I strive to help when I can, many individuals find it challenging to contribute due to their own circumstances.
Our societal structures have also changed over time. In the past, before the advent of the Internet and social media, it was more challenging to seek or provide help. However, today, social media has made it easier to ask for assistance and raise awareness, which has ironically contributed to a perception of increased selfishness.
Many people have reservations about giving to those who may not truly need help. The question of whether someone genuinely requires assistance or if they are taking advantage becomes a crucial concern. This skepticism often stems from a lack of clear information and a tendency to assume that everyone is seeking to benefit personally.
In conclusion, the self-centeredness of today's people is a complex issue with roots in individual psychology, societal structures, and cultural perceptions. By understanding these underlying factors, we can work towards creating a more empathetic and interconnected society.