What Soldiers Wish Civilians Understood

Note: I spent 9 years active duty in the US Navy, including service in the Vietnamese Mekong Delta. My beloved wife of 48 years and Vietnamese War Buddy rest in peace, July 21, 2019.

Myth: Service Members Require Monetary Compensation for Transportation and Medical Care

One of the most common questions I've received is whether we need money for emergency travel and medical expenses. This is a misunderstanding that often arises from a lack of understanding of the support systems available to service members and veterans.

Understanding the Support System

After serving in the military, particularly during times of crisis, it's not uncommon for civilians to wonder about the financial burden of transportation and medical care. However, the reality is that service members and veterans have access to extensive support networks designed to alleviate these concerns.

Transportation: The military generally provides its members with substantial support for travel. This includes the use of military transportation systems, which can be mobilized in emergencies. In cases where personal transportation is necessary, reimbursement for travel expenses is provided. Medical Care: Access to medical services is also one of the key benefits of military service. The Department of Defense offers a wide range of healthcare options, including emergency treatment, regular check-ups, and specialist care. Veterans continue to have access to these services.

It's important to recognize that the military's goal is to ensure the safety and health of its personnel, which includes covering these essential needs without the need for personal funds.

Dispelling Myths: The Reality of Military Life

Despite the challenges and dangers associated with military service, it's crucial to understand that service members are fundamentally ordinary individuals rather than superhuman heroes. Many soldiers and veterans return to civilian life with the same hopes, dreams, and concerns as anyone else. Here are a few more things civilians might not understand:

Adapting to Civilian Life

1. The Impact of Trauma: Military service can take a significant toll on mental and emotional well-being. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), combat-related injuries, and the challenges of readjusting to civilian life are all realities that need to be addressed.

2. The Normalization of Service: Many service members describe themselves as 'just doing my job' despite the dangerous nature of their work. This mindset is deeply ingrained and ensures that they can fulfill their duties without becoming overly focused on the risks involved.

Supporting Our Heroes

As the civilian population, there are several ways we can support our military and veterans:

Education: Learn more about the experiences and needs of service members and veterans to dispel common misconceptions. Mental Health: Encourage mental health awareness and provide resources for those who need them. Community Involvement: Get involved in local veteran support groups or volunteer to assist with veterans' affairs.

Conclusion

Military service, while often heroic and risky, is fundamentally about providing support and protection to our communities and nation. The misconceptions and myths surrounding the financial needs of service members reflect a broader misunderstanding of the comprehensive support systems in place and the everyday lives of those who serve.

Respect, understanding, and support for our military and veterans are critical components of a healthy society. By acknowledging their contributions and addressing common misunderstandings, we can foster a more empathetic and informed community.