The Healing Power of Childhood Lullabies: Personal Stories and Insights

I often reflect on the meaningful moments that shaped me as a child, and one of the most cherished memories involves the songs my parents sang to me before bedtime. These lullabies played a pivotal role in my emotional well-being and continue to bring me comfort even as I age.

My Sister's 'Kendra' Song

When my eldest sister, Kendra, was born, things took a different turn in our household. My eldest sister became particularly upset by my brother's arrival. In response, our grandmother stepped in to provide my sister with extra attention. To do this, she would rock her to sleep with lullabies. However, she quickly realized that my sister wanted a lullaby that included her name.

One night, when Kendra insisted on a song with her name, our grandmother came up with a unique solution. She created the OOO LA LA LEE[1] song:

I love my Kendra, my Kendra loves  La La Ooo La La Ooo La La Lee.What a wonderful girl is  La La Ooo La La Ooo La La Lee.

Grandma's creation became an instant hit within our family. It was such a simple yet special touch that made Kendra feel loved and unique. Over the years, we all grew to enjoy this tradition, and it remains a beloved memory for all of us.

Learning and Loving 'My Song'

When it was time for me to be tucked in, it was my mother who would sing to me. Much like the OOO LA LA LEE song, she would change the names in the lyrics to make it my special lullaby. One of the soothing songs she would sing to me was:

You are my sunshine, my only  make me happy when skies are  never know, dear, how much I love  don't take my sunshine away.

This song brought me joy and made me feel cherished. It is a testament to the power of words and music to heal and comfort.

Family Bonding and Memories

Christmas 2008 was a significant year, as it marked my mother's final holiday with us. My mother had lived with us since the birth of my youngest daughter, and for this last Christmas, we all gathered to make it meaningful. Before bedtime, my mother asked if my grandmother could come over to Rock her. Of course, grandmother was happy to help, and my daughter asked if Grandma could sing 'my song'.

The entire family started singing the [1] song, and it became a special moment of bonding and remembrance. This tradition has continued to this day, and every family function, we sing 'MOMS SONG' to honor her memory.

The Influence of Childhood Lullabies

Childhood lullabies have a profound impact on our lives. They are not just songs but are imbued with love, protection, and comfort. Even as I age, these melodies bring back warm memories and a sense of belonging. They remind me of my parents' love and the care they provided me during my formative years.

Conclusion

Whether it's songs like 'You Are My Sunshine' or the uniquely crafted 'Kendra' song, childhood lullabies have the power to heal and bring joy. They are a precious part of our shared memories and a reflection of the strong bond between parents and children.

References

[1] OOO LA LA LEE song, loved by the family and still sung today to honor mother's memory.