The GED Journey and the Lessons Learned: A Personal Reflection
Back in 1977, my story began in a small town in Texas. Being a teenager with a pregnant belly and no clear path forward, my high school refused to let me complete my final two years and graduate. Despite their decision, I knew I had a choice to make, and I chose to work hard and find a new path. I moved to Lubbock, Texas, when my son was just nine months old. Here, I balanced working two jobs, attending GED classes, acquiring childcare experience, and gaining experience as a mental health paraprofessional.
I've spent over four decades working in various positions. While I faced challenges, I also appreciated the diverse experiences I gained. Fast forward to last summer when my son turned 40, and I reflect on my journey and the lessons I learned.
GED Tests: Not as Difficult as You Think
When I took my GED tests in northern Alberta, Canada, they were not as challenging as one might imagine. The exam was administered over two days and consisted of several parts: Language Arts Writing (including an essay), Math, Science, Social Studies (a broad history review), Language Arts Reading, and interpreting poetry and similar materials. This was a very broad and comprehensive assessment that prepared me for further education and career opportunities.
The Path to the GED
My path to obtaining my GED was a journey of self-discovery, but it was not an easy one. My background was quite unique; I was a student with no real social group. Despite being good-looking and athletically gifted, I had a complex social circle because of my diverse interests and behaviors. My academic performance was excellent, as evidenced by my high scores in advanced physics with exceptional attendance. However, I made a series of poor choices that led to a risky lifestyle involving drugs and money, which eventually took its toll. At the age of 27, I realized that I needed to do something more productive with my life, so I pursued my GED and then entered college to transform myself. Today, I am in the process of making the most of my education and experience.
Lessons Learned
The experience taught me valuable lessons that can resonate with many. For one, staying in school is crucial. Education provides a foundation for a fulfilling life, and it is far more valuable than the immediate fun and distractions of a risky lifestyle. I made poor choices, and they cost me dearly. Some of my friends faced tragic fates, and many more ended up in jail. The time lost and the opportunities missed are some of the most significant lessons I learned from my experiences.
My story is not meant to glamourize the path I took. Instead, it serves as a cautionary tale. If you find yourself in a situation where you are making choices that are leading you down a difficult path, it's better to make a change sooner rather than later. You may not get another chance to rectify your mistakes. Focus on your education and personal growth, and you will set yourself up for success in the long run.
Conclusion
In conclusion, obtaining a GED is a significant milestone that can help you navigate the challenges of life. My journey was not easy, but it was transformative. Stay focused on your education, make wise choices, and stay on the path to personal growth. Your future self will thank you for it.