Navigating the Intersection of High IQ and Autism Spectrum: Insights from Personal Experience
Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and high IQ often coexist in individuals, as illustrated by various stories from those who intersect both identities. This article delves into the lived experiences of individuals who possess both traits and provides insights into how they manage and navigate these intersecting identities.
Understanding the Intersectionality of High IQ and Autism
Several individuals with a high IQ level and autism spectrum disorder can coexist harmoniously. These individuals exhibit unique approaches to managing their cognitive traits, and their experiences offer valuable insights into the complexities of living with both conditions.
Personal Accounts and Management Strategies
1. Personal Insight from a High-IQ and Autism Individual
I will discuss the case of an individual I am most familiar with, who is both on the autism spectrum and has a high IQ, or a genius level IQ. This person understands and acknowledges the unique way in which they process information, often leading to socially inappropriate behaviors due to their differently-enabled mind. However, instead of defending themselves, they reflect and learn from these situations, making amendments and improving their interactions with others.
Engaging in high-IQ societies, such as Mensa, Intertel, and Triple-Nines, has provided them with a sense of belonging among others who share similar experiences. This allows them to discuss and navigate their challenges more effectively. Once they cross the threshold of recognizing their potential for error, life on the spectrum becomes more manageable.
2. Personal Accounts from Two Grown Sons
I have two grown sons who are on the autism spectrum and are geniuses. Both of them inherit their geniuses from neither their mother nor their father, who possess average intelligence. My eldest son has ADD and appears to have a low IQ due to his scattered thoughts and disorganized ways, but upon closer observation, one can see the immense level of intelligence he possesses. My youngest son has autism, which is a recognition that he has to manage more than just the condition itself. He also struggles with severe anxiety, OCD, and depression. Despite these challenges, he uses his intense interest to conduct thorough research and demonstrate a high level of intelligence.
Neither of them 'manages' their intellect, but rather it is an inherent part of their identity. This is also true for their autism. They have grown with the condition and have adapted it into their daily lives, making it second nature to them. Their intellectual pursuits and personal challenges coexist seamlessly.
A Personal Journey of Living with Multiple Conditions
I, an academic with an international reputation in management consulting, was late-diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome and Neurofibromatosis Type 1 in 2002 at the age of 57. I also have Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), which, in my opinion, is more relevant and meaningful than the meaningless label. With a family of at least 23 members out of 33 on the spectrum, and several adults achieving well, including those with Ph.D.s and Master's degrees, the intersecting traits of high IQ and autism do not hinder their success.
The management strategies that have worked for us revolve around unity, love, caring, common purpose, sharing, and goodwill. No one is left behind, and while the road can be tough, the good times far outweigh the bad. We approach these challenges with common sense and realism, without any egos to feed. This approach ensures that we navigate our lives with grace and resilience.
Conclusion
The intersection of high IQ and autism spectrum disorder presents unique challenges and opportunities. Through personal reflections and accounts, it becomes clear that managing these traits involves understanding and acknowledging the differences in processing information and engaging in supportive communities. By fostering a positive environment and employing adaptive strategies, individuals can navigate these intersecting identities with confidence and success.