Navigating Public Photography: Dealing with Middle-Aged Men on Japanese Trains
While living in Japan in the 1960s, I was struck by the politeness of the Japanese people. With a crime rate that is notoriously low, one might be surprised to encounter a middle-aged man taking your picture on a public train. This situation can be uncomfortable, but there are strategies to handle the situation gracefully.
Understanding the Context
Today, most people understand the benefits of sharing photos, especially on platforms like Google Maps where additional photos and reviews are appreciated. However, it’s important to recognize that there are some individuals who misuse the act of taking pictures for inappropriate reasons. This is a global issue that transcends cultural boundaries.
How Should You React?
When a middle-aged man takes a picture of you on a public train in Japan, here are some steps you can take:
Indicate That You Disapprove: Politely let the person know you do not appreciate the picture. Say something like, "I would prefer not to be photographed." Know Your Rights: Understand that you have the right to privacy. If the person persists, report the incident to the train staff or the nearest police officer. Stay Calm and Composed: Maintain a calm demeanor to avoid escalating the situation. This helps to preserve a positive atmosphere.Dealing with Similar Situations
Experiencing photo-taking without permission is not exclusive to Japan. As a Google Local Guide, I encountered a young female worker who was uncomfortable with a train passenger taking pictures of her and her coworkers. After a request, I complied and only used pictures that did not include any faces.
There’s nothing wrong with expressing your concerns and needing the picture to be deleted. This approach ensures both parties respect each other’s privacy.
Conclusion
Photos taken on public transportation can sometimes lead to uncomfortable situations. By staying composed, indicating your disapproval, and understanding your rights, you can navigate these encounters effectively. Remember, it’s all about finding a balance between sharing and respecting privacy.