What is the Best Advice You Can Give to Someone Using Quora?

Since the beginning of my journey on Quora in late 2016, I've observed a recurring pattern. People click on answers they know will upset them, engaging with content that intentionally angers them. When they see content that annoys them, the algorithm believes this pattern and shows more of the same. This cycle is frustrating, not just for the individual, but also for the community as a whole.

I found myself regularly writing on certain topics, but I noticed a significant absence of content on politics. This led me to mute these topics, as well as customize my feed and mute writers whose content upset me. This has not only saved me time but also opened up new fields for me to explore.

A Journey Through Debates on Quora

I once wrote an answer on Quora with just 250 words. Although I believed that not everyone would react the same way, my prediction was correct. Someone took offense, and in a response of 750 words, I found myself explaining the point again with 400 words. In a further 600-word response, the discussion escalated. I knew at this point that it was counterproductive, and decided to stop the debate. The other party only upvoted my comment, and quickly moved on to another topic. The realization struck me that by avoiding further conflict, I saved both of our valuable time.

This experience prompted me to reflect on the broader implications and offer the best advice possible to someone using Quora: avoid arguing with people. Arguing is not only counterproductive but also may result in an appearance that is unfavourable to you. Even if you convincingly win an argument, it does not bring you any social capital and often leaves a negative impression.

While it's important to engage in discussions and debate ideas with people, even those with whom you have differing views, mutual respect and willingness to listen is a must. Especially on controversial topics such as politics, religion, or films, it's just a waste of time. As Dale Carnegie once said, “If you argue and rankle and contradict you may achieve a victory sometimes but it will be an empty victory because you will never get your opponent’s good will.”

Putting the Advice into Practice

By following this advice, you can save valuable time, focus on more productive activities, and maintain a positive online presence. Additionally, every discussion, whether it leads to a productive outcome or not, can be a learning experience. Engage in debates with an open mind, understanding that different viewpoints can provide valuable insights. Avoid falling into the trap of unnecessary argumentation and instead aim for meaningful and constructive conversations.

Remember, the goal of participating in online forums like Quora should be to gain knowledge and understanding, not to prove others wrong. Approach every discussion with a spirit of learning and mutual respect, and you will find a more fulfilling and enjoyable experience on Quora.