A Baby Boomer's Best High School Memory: My Exchange Student Experience in Mendoza, Argentina
As a baby boomer who graduated between 1975 and 1979, reflecting on my best high school memory, I would have to say that my experience as an exchange student in Mendoza, Argentina, stands out among the many cherished memories from my youth. It was a profoundly transformative experience that deepened my understanding of another culture while strengthening my language skills.
The Decision to Become an Exchange Student
By the time 1970 rolled around, I was a passionate Spanish student whose academic performance was impressive. This interest in the Spanish language gave me the unique opportunity to participate in the Youth for Understanding program, which sent high school students abroad to live with host families. The program specifically targeted students who had demonstrated a keen interest in the language and culture of their host countries.
An Unforgettable Host Family
My host family in Mendoza consisted of three children, and we affectionately referred to our host parents as “Mom and Dad,” and their children as “siblings.” This arrangement provided a warm and welcoming environment, despite the initial cultural and linguistic differences. The family even had an older sister and a younger sister, similar to what I had experienced back in the states. However, unlike my peers, I was an only child, which made this experience even more special.
Differences in the High School System
One aspect that made my time in Mendoza truly unique was the high school system. While I was used to a typical American high school where students move from classroom to classroom, the Argentine education system required the teachers to come to the students. This unique structure allowed for a more intimate and personal educational experience, which was quite different from what I was used to. Despite some challenges, I was able to use my existing knowledge to answer questions, especially when they related to American culture and events.
Preparation for Living Abroad
The process of becoming an exchange student was rigorous and thorough. I had to fill out an application and undergo an interview to ensure that I was prepared for this cultural immersion. A common misconception is that exchange programs only accept straight A students. In reality, a diverse range of students, including me with my strong Spanish proficiency and academic dedication, were welcomed into the program. The key to success in these programs is being well-prepared and informed about current events and cultural nuances.
Common Interests and Current Events
In Mendoza, we had the opportunity to bond with other exchange students from various countries. One of the favorite topics among locals was discussing women's fashion in the United States. The length of women's dresses and the implications of their style were a source of curiosity and delight. Another popular topic was my opinion on the recent marriage of Jackie Kennedy to Aristotle Onassis, a story that resonated across cultural boundaries.
The Impact of the Experience
The experience in Mendoza left an enduring impression on me. Fast forward to almost five decades later, and I still cherish the memories. The connection to another culture and the deepening of my language skills remain some of the most valuable assets I have. For those considering participating in an exchange program, whether as an exchange student or a host family, I cannot emphasize enough the importance and benefits of such an experience.
The program not only enhances your language abilities but also offers a profound understanding of another culture and the ability to navigate different social contexts. I strongly encourage anyone with the opportunity to embrace it wholeheartedly, for the memories and lessons learned will last a lifetime.